Monday, June 5, 2017

Potty Training

Potty training 😩

Potty training by bribery, silence, then stare down.  That is what works for us.

I have tried bribing Katie with candy for potty training through the years and it has never worked.  But now for some reason a Good & Plenty sighting is working wonders!  Well, maybe that is going too far to say wonders, however we have had more success in the past month where she goes (pee only at this point) within a few minutes if I:

1) ask her who is a big girl (she pats herself) and tell her big girls pee on the potty

2)  show her the candy and I eat one and tell how her how good it is, lol!

3) we have a stare down in silence for about 30 seconds or so and then if we are lucky, she pees.

This is huge for us because I think in the past, she just figures she has always gone in a diaper so why use a toilet.  We have a long way to go with this for sure, but it is a start.  I think the main idea is that she realizes that she should pee (and poo) in the potty.

Changing an 11 year-old's diaper is not a fun thing.  I hope someday we can get this down.  I don't want to be changing a 20 year old's diaper someday. 😰

Wednesday, May 3, 2017

summer 2017

Katie only has a few weeks of school left and usually I have a summer program for her to attend but not this year.  I am envisioning a summer of days without showers and make-up for me 😟.  I am going to work on things with her and be a "home-schooler" for the summer.  Ugh!  This does not make me happy. That's probably a terrible thing to say but she loves being with other kids so much she'll probably resent me! lol! We have a few vacations so that will break it up, but I foresee a looooooong summer.

I checked into a few summer camps but the few I thought might work don't have a good ratio of aides to kids, and they go to movies and one has a splash pad - Katie doesn't do well in movies (too loud and she gets scared easy) and needs constant supervision at a splash pad - plus those gross me out and when we go she gets a shower immediately.  I can't believe I see parents at those who are blabbing with their friends and don't watch their children and then the kid is drinking the water out of it. 😣

So, no segue here but on another note, the scientist at Northwestern University who is an expert on her rare mutation applied twice for grants from the NIH and got denied. I think one of the reasons was that Katie is so unique the $250,000 he applied for would only benefit her, for now anyway. Maybe they like to put the money towards helping bigger groups of people. So this just plain sucks. I know he may be able to get grants from other places but a lot of her stuff (like using her skin sample for different experiments) is put on hold for now.  And he is trying to get a mouse with her same mutation but that is not going well either.

She is doing well though. A joy as usual and growing a little bit taller this year. I'm sure it will be a good summer. The pool will probably get a lot of use!  Maybe I'll consider that my shower.

Wednesday, March 22, 2017


Had a birthday party with a bounce house and lots of friends... Katie's aunts and cousins came to visit (my sisters) and it was SO FUN! It's been a crazy few weeks.  Here's a cute picture I took today and I will write more when I get my house and life back in order 😑

Wednesday, February 8, 2017

tub time

Just a funny thing:  I have to give Katie a bath tonight, and I was thinking about how she's pretty good until I comb through the conditioner and rinse it off.  I have found that if I sing to her (and believe me I am no singer) she enjoys it and laughs, most likely at me. Hey, whatever works! The latest song is 50 Ways to Leave Your Lover, and she loves it!  Kudos to Paul Simon.

p.s. My nephew just got accepted to Berklee School of Music (yay!) and they have a class on Paul Simon.  How cool is that?!

Hop off the bus Gus...

Thursday, February 2, 2017

Neurology: Genetics (Journal)

So, this is really fantastic news! Katie is now famous with an article about her mutation in Neurology: Genetics.  🙌 The hope is that her rare mutation will now be known about, and maybe we will find more people with this same mutation. This could lead to more grant money and hopefully more knowledge about this mutation and, well I don't know what else - but all good things!  This has been in the works for a while.  This is a very exciting moment in science and in our household!  🍻     

Here is the link:

Wednesday, January 11, 2017


January in Arizona 😎
So here's the kiddo looking like a teenager in her grown up shirt, so darn cute!

We had a great Christmas and she enjoyed opening ALL of our presents!

Monday, December 12, 2016

Funny kid!

Sometimes I feel bad because I hear of other people's kids saying funny things and I know the odds are against us that that will ever be the case with Katie.  And I just KNOW she would be saying some darn funny stuff!

For Christmas we seem to be collecting these (thanks Mom!) and have about 10 of them now.

This must be the new one from last year because I don't even remember it.  This is the only one Katie is interested in.  She keeps grabbing it and taking it to the couch and licking the plate of cookies!  See, she IS SO FUNNY!  This kid just cracks me up. 💖  

Friday, November 18, 2016

dancing kids

This video made my day!  A fun field trip - Katie gets dissed at the end, but she handles it well 😆

Thursday, October 20, 2016


My last post was all about what an irritable child Katie had been for about a month or so. I blamed it on the slight change in weather from over 100 degrees to the 90's ... incorrect.

I stopped giving Katie the B-12 shots in August.  I had been giving her a shot every 3rd night for about a year or more.  It was getting hard for me to give her a shot in her bottom when she looks at me like I am a demon, that's basically why I stopped.  Besides "the look" she was giving me, there was a lot of yelling, etc... so I just stopped.

Why it took me so long to put two and two together I don't know, but I did and ordered those shots as soon as that light bulb went off.

Katie had a half day at school a few weeks ago and those shots were delivered to my door that morning. She came home, ate lunch, and was ready for a nap. I put her in bed and gave her a quick unexpected shot and she was off dreaming about cookies.

When she woke up, I SWEAR she was in a better mood!  I called my sister and told her and we both thought it (or maybe I) was crazy!

So the moral of this story is that it seems that the B-12 shot is what is helping Katie's mood, energy etc... and without it she is demonic, haha! Now I am the demon again... but I don't care she is getting that shot!

The funny thing is that I gave myself a shot in my rear to see how it would affect me and I wasn't even sure if I actually did it because I felt NOTHING! These shots are so tiny and it takes a millisecond. I don't know why Katie gets so crazy.

I haven't gotten that possessed look from Katie yet, let's hope it stays that way.

Look!  My happy, smiley kid is back checking out some tree bark. She has been great ever since! B-12, I love you!

I had taken Katie to a naturopathic doctor where he suggested among other things, doing a test with  which told us Katie was low in B-12. That is why we put her on it. The test was $99 and was just a swab of the inside of her cheek and tells a lot of information.

Good stuff!